Urukundo, ntiruzigera ruhagarara

Niwowe wenyine kuri njye muri iyi si itandukanye.

Nahuye n'umugabo wanjye mu 1996. Muri icyo gihe, binyuze mu kumenyekanisha inshuti yanjye, mu rugo rwa mwene wacu hateguwe itariki idahumye.Ndibuka igihe nasukaga amazi kubatangije, igikombe kigwa gitumo.ikintu gitangaje nuko ikirahure kitavunitse kandi amazi ntiyasesekaye igitonyanga.Muramukazi wanjye mukuru yishimye cyane ati: “ikimenyetso cyiza!Ibi bigomba kuba ishyingiranwa ryiza, kandi mwembi murabizi neza!”Nyuma yo kubyumva, twese dufite isoni nke, ariko imbuto z'urukundo zatewe mu mutuzo mu mitima ya buri wese.

Ati: “Abantu bamwe bavuga ko urukundo ari imyaka ijana yo kwigunga, kugeza uhuye n'umuntu uzakurinda nta gushidikanya, kandi muri ako kanya irungu ryose rifite inzira yo gusubira inyuma.”Ndi imfura mu muryango wanjye.Usibye amafaranga menshi nabonye mu kugurisha imyenda, nashakaga kuzigama amafaranga yo kurera barumuna banjye babiri ngo bajye muri kaminuza.
Igihe umugabo wanjye Qi yakoraga muri Songyuan Oilfield, yafataga ikiruhuko buri gice cy'ukwezi.Igihe twongeye guhura, Qi yampaye igitabo cye cy'umushahara.Muri ako kanya, nari nzi neza ko ntahisemo umuntu mubi.Kurongora byatumye numva nishimye.

Nta rukundo rwinshi, ubukwe bwacu bwabaye ku ya 20 Gashyantare 1998.
Ku ya 5 Nyakanga y'umwaka ukurikira, umuhungu wacu wa mbere Nai Xuan yavutse.
Kubera ko twembi dufite akazi, tugomba kugarura umuhungu wacu wamezi umunani mucyaro kwa nyirakuru.Rimwe na rimwe, nyuma yumunsi uhuze, nkumbuye rwose abana banjye iyo ngeze murugo nijoro, nuko mfata tagisi ndiruka nimugoroba, nzana ibiryo by'ifu y'amata nihuta ngaruka.

Kubera imiterere mibi murugo, tugomba kubara kugirango tugure amakara, kandi rimwe na rimwe tugomba no gutema inkwi zo guteka.Mugihe kigoye cyane, ingano yibyo kurya mucyumweru nigice cya tofu.Buri munsi hashobora kubaho intoki zimboga rwatsi nigice cyamakara, niyo soko yacu.
Mu gihe cy'itumba hari hakonje cyane ku buryo jye n'umuhungu wanjye twabyutse saa yine za mu gitondo, maze umugabo wanjye arahaguruka aducanira amashyiga.
Umwaka umwe, igihe bungalow yakodeshaga yasenywe byihutirwa, jye n'umuhungu wanjye twagombaga kwimuka.
Muri icyo gihe, nta terefone igendanwa yari ihari, kandi Qi ntiyashoboraga kuvugana na we ku kazi.Agarutse aho yari atuye, twagiye.Twari dufite impungenge zo kubaza hirya no hino mbere yuko tubona amakuru kwa nyiri iduka rito.
Qi yarahiye rwihishwa mumutima we ko azaha mama na mama urugo rwabo uko byagenda kose!Hagati aho, twakodeshaga ibigega, bungalows n'imbaho, amaherezo tugira inzu yacu bwite, maze iduka ry'imyenda rikura buhoro buhoro riva kuri konti rija mu maduka ane.
Iyo minsi ibabaje yabaye ibintu bitazibagirana mubuzima.
Ubuzima burigihe buherekezwa nibyishimo nububabare.
Mu myaka mike ishize, isuzuma ryanjye ryumubiri ryasanze narwaye nyababyeyi.Nari narangaye kubera imihango ikabije no kubabara mu rukenyerero no mu nda.
Umuganga w’umugore waho yambwiye ko hakenewe hysterectomie kugirango tubone umuti wuzuye wa leiomyoma.
Tumaze kumenya ko ultrases ya HIFU yibanze cyane idashobora gutera nyababyeyi kandi nta gikomere cyakozwe muri icyo gikorwa, twongeye kubona ibyiringiro.
Igikorwa cya Diregiteri Chen Qian cyagenze neza kuburyo twahise dusubira mu mujyi w'ejo nyuma yo kuruhuka gato.
Ubu imihango yanjye iragabanutse, kandi ibimenyetso byanjye ni bike.
Ndashimira ikipe ya Muganga Chen, nashoboye kugumana nyababyeyi no gukomeza kuba umugore wuzuye.
Urakoze, muganga.Urakoze, rukundo rwanjye, kubwitayeho hamwe na sosiyete mumyaka yashize!